The September 2, 2008 edition of The New York Times carried an op-ed piece by Dalton Conley, chairman of New York University’s sociology department, entitled, “The Rich Man’s Burden.” Intrigued by the title, I clicked to read it.

In discussing our nation’s “income inequality” (between rich and not-so-rich) the author states that the real disparity lies between the middle and the top, not between the poor and rich. The line that left me rolling in the aisle was “ . . . a poll of New Yorkers found that those who earned more than $200,000 a year were the most likely of any income group to agree that ‘seeing other people with money’ makes them feel poor.”

We define comparison as “the act of comparing, likening, or representing as similar, comparable condition or character, always with the negative expressed or implied.”

Edna Lister said: “Comparison is dangerous, for it produces negativity, undervaluing of your talents or abilities, loss of confidence, and can lead to subconscious jealousy, and ultimately to self-pity. You invest your life substance when you compare.”

As we live and grow in experience, we each develop a long list of “what not to do.” Maturity arrives when we recall that we have created this list, then review it regularly to assure that we do not fall into any old trap. Comparison is a mental/emotional trap, like a cruel leg-hold trap for an animal.

No generation has worshiped the golden calf like the present global business world. The love of money is the root of all evil, not money itself.

If we’re loving money, we’re not loving God, but worshiping the golden calf, practicing a mechanistic evil. Spiritual leprosy is believing the accouterments of success are the deity.

Linda Mihalic – Copyright 2012 All Rights Reserved

Janice  Vicks
Before I read the words comparison is dangerous I was thinking them! I gave up living for money when I was young and watched the life of a friend who came from a wealthy family be abused and then detereorate until she died. Her money didn't save her.
  • December 2, 2012
  • ·
  • Like
Linda Mihalic
Janice, one of my mantras has been: "I don't live in my money, wear my money or drive my money." And I swam with the sharks in Corporate America long enough that I knew it would corrode my values if I remained. Thus, I am  much happier with the lower profile life I have led and plan to lead in futur...
  • December 2, 2012
  • ·
  • Like
Safari Woman
How absurd about the 200 thuos + people being the most likely to compare and feel they fall short! When I was very young and very very poor, I did feel envy no doubt about it which is why I can somewhat relate to what the young "progressives" are thinking. But then I realized it was a trap and I had...
  • December 2, 2012
  • ·
  • Like
Captcha Challenge
Reload Image
Type in the verification code above
Back To Top
TOP