I normally try to outdo myself year after year hoping to please the people I share the day with and find so much joy from their smiles. This year, I just don't feel it. The thought of decorating and getting caught up in it seems, ......... well, pointless. I've never in my life felt like this before! Never! I always love Christmas. I only have a few days left to make up my mind because it is either a go or a no go due to all that it takes to prepare. I don't do anything half way and wouldn't enjoy doing a little any more than I would doing nothing. I can't figure out what is wrong with me. Is it depression? Am I just over the traditions?
I was looking at a picture that I posted on here last night of my tree from last year. It was nice. But nothing urged me inside to do it again other than thinking about how once a year I get to reminiss and think of all the great times I had when so many of the things I drag out get attention and bring recollection.
I know after this coming weekend my deadline to "Do Christmas" will pass. I feel the pressure to decide but no inspiration to decide to do it. If even one person around me was up for it maybe I would feel differently. But at this point it feels like another empty Hallmark holiday.
I don't need December 25th to think about the reason for the season. I think about that every day.
When it comes to holiday cheer this year, I'm empty inside ... what gives?
And then I think, what if it is my last Christmas? Or someone I love's last Christmas, will I regret not giving it time and love?
I don't know ... or what to do... Will I "feel it" once I start if I decide to do it anyway without a lot of inspiration or resent it for the time and effort taken? Ah geez, I would have never thought this would be an issue I would face!
I want my Merry Christmas back! But I don't know where to find it. And if I don't find it, I hope I don't regret it.
Has anyone else ever gone through this before?
Perhaps, in the back of your mind, you know christmas is not Christian. Here's a goo...
I have been there! Though I couldn't just NOT have Christmas...I had little ones to think of. So....I put on my happy face around them, made cookies with them while singing Carols.... decorated the Christmas tree... told myself constantly that I was happy to see them happy....
I broke down i...
I've decid...
Bake some cookies and share them with all at the home.
Even doing some volunteer work will get you out to me...